Stop Advertising to the 3%: Climb the Awareness Ladder to Stabilize ROAS

Your ads probably aren't losing the auction. You're just fishing in the smallest pond on the platform and calling the empty net a Meta problem.

Let me back that up, because it's the single thing I'd change first for most brands stuck on the ROAS roller coaster, where one day you're at a 3.5 and feeling like a genius and the next you're at a 1.4 wondering what broke. Nine times out of ten, nothing broke. You're advertising to the small slice of people who already know they want what you sell, and that slice is so thin and so competitive that your numbers swing wildly with the mood of the day.

There's a better pond. You just have to climb to reach it.

Why fighting over the 3% wrecks your ROAS

Most brands write ads for people who are basically ready to buy. "Save 20% on humidifiers." That works on the person who woke up today wanting a humidifier. The trouble is, on any given day that's maybe 3% of the people who could eventually want one. The other 97% scroll straight past, because you're answering a question they haven't asked yet.

When your whole account lives in that 3%, your performance is hostage to things you don't control. Whether enough ready buyers are online today. Whether a competitor launched a cheaper offer this morning. Whether the news has everyone nervous and sitting on their wallet. You're not building demand, you're skimming it, and skimmed demand is volatile by nature. That's the roller coaster.

The fix isn't a new bid strategy or a fresh account structure. It's deciding to go and talk to the other 97%, the people who have the problem but haven't started shopping. That's where the pond gets enormous and the auction gets quieter, both at once.

The five stages of awareness, quickly

The map for this is old and it still holds, and once you start writing stages of awareness ads on purpose, the whole roller coaster starts to make sense. Every potential customer sits at one of five stages, and the gap between them is everything.

  • Most aware - knows your brand and your product, just needs a nudge or a deal.
  • Product aware - knows products like yours exist, comparing options.
  • Solution aware - knows the type of solution, doesn't know your product yet.
  • Problem aware - feels the problem, hasn't gone looking for a fix.
  • Unaware - doesn't even know they have the problem.

Most accounts I look at are crammed into the top two stages, fighting the same handful of competitors with the same "us vs them" and "save 20%" ads. Down at the bottom, problem aware and unaware, it's wide open, because writing for those stages is harder and most brands can't be bothered. That difficulty is exactly why it's where the scale is.

The same product, climbed one rung at a time

Let me make it concrete with one product, a humidifier, written at every stage so you can feel the shift.

  • Most aware: "Save 20% on our humidifiers." Speaks only to people already sold on you.
  • Product aware: "The world's first stainless steel humidifier." Speaks to people choosing between humidifiers.
  • Solution aware: "Our humidifier vs the others." Speaks to people who know they want a humidifier and are comparing.
  • Problem aware: "Still waking up with a dry throat and a stuffy nose? It might not be your bedtime routine." Now you're talking to everyone with the symptom, most of whom never searched "humidifier" in their life.
  • Unaware: "You'll never guess what's floating in the air in your bedroom right now." Now you're talking to people who weren't thinking about any of this until your hook made them.

Look at the size of the audience expanding with every rung. The most-aware ad can only ever talk to people hunting for a humidifier today. The unaware hook can stop someone who didn't know humidifiers existed, walk them through the problem, and sell them one by the end of the video. Same product. Wildly different ceiling.

This is also why brands quietly find their best-performing ad is some scrappy problem-aware thing they half-pinched off TikTok, and they can't explain why it works. It works because it's fishing in the big pond.

Why climbing steadies the ride

Here's the part that matters for your sanity, not just your scale. When you write for problem-aware and unaware people, your ROAS stops swinging so hard, for a few reasons.

You're no longer relying on enough ready buyers being online today, because you're creating the readiness inside the ad. You're competing in a far less crowded auction, because most brands won't go up there. And you're less exposed to a competitor's offer, because you're reaching people before they're even comparing offers. You become the one who framed the problem, which is a much stronger position than being one more "20% off" in a sea of them.

I'm not saying abandon the bottom of the funnel. Those most-aware and product-aware ads still close the people who are ready, and you should keep them running. The point is that they can't be your whole engine, because the engine they build is a roller coaster. The upper-awareness ads are what flatten it out.

How to actually write the curiosity-led ad

This is the bit people get stuck on, so here's the process I'd follow rather than just "be more creative".

  1. Do the research to educate yourself first. You can't write a gripping unaware ad about a problem you only half understand. Go deep on what the product actually does, the mechanism, the surprising facts, the real reviews. The humidifier hook only exists because someone bothered to learn what's genuinely floating in indoor air.
  2. Share the findings, don't pitch. Once you know the surprising thing, the ad almost writes itself, because you're teaching, not selling. "Most people breathing in their bedroom tonight are inhaling more dust and bacteria than they'd ever guess, and here's what it's doing to your sleep." The product shows up at the end as the obvious fix.
  3. Lead with curiosity or a familiar problem. Compare "You'll never guess what's floating in your air right now" to "us vs them humidifier". One creates a gap the brain needs to close. The other asks a question almost nobody's asking. Open the loop, then take your time closing it.
  4. Let it run long if it earns the time. There's no such thing as too long with these ads, only too boring. People will binge a twenty-part story on their phone if the suspense holds. Your job is to keep them leaning in, not to be brief. The brevity rule is for the bottom of the funnel, not the top.
  5. Build a swipe file from your own scroll. Next time an ad or a video stops you cold and you watch thirty seconds without meaning to, save it and ask why. Nearly always it's an open loop or a piece of suspense. Reverse-engineer that, not the polish.

Match the ad to the right page

One trap to avoid, because it quietly kills the whole strategy. An upper-awareness ad earns a click from someone who is not ready to buy, so if you drop them straight onto a product page, they bounce. They've got curiosity, not intent yet.

Send that traffic to a page that keeps teaching, an advertorial or a listicle-style build that continues the story the ad started, builds the trust, and only then points at the product. The colder the awareness, the more information the page has to carry before the buy button makes sense. A great unaware hook landing on a bare collection page is a beautifully baited hook with no line attached.

So here's the exercise I'd actually do this week. Take your hero product and write it out at all five stages, just like the humidifier above, most aware down to unaware. You'll feel which rungs your account is missing the second you see it on paper, and the empty ones are almost always where your next scalable ad is hiding. Try it, and tell me you don't find at least one angle you'd never have written otherwise. Which rung is your whole account stuck on right now?

Ethan To
CEO @ Pigeon Digital